so yesterday I asked the foster mom if she can do my son's seventh month pics. when she sent them, I said that I probably won't see her Wednesday due to weather and that I guess I'll see her Friday. (it is supposed to snow overnight then rain and communty concepts won't drive if it's to bad out.) I got a call a few hours ago from my visit supervisor saying that the foster mom had called her all concerned that I wasn't going to my visit tomorrow so I got this whole lecture about how I shouldn't "assume" that the visit will be cancelled from the weather until it happens. like I get up at 6 and leave just before 7. so if I see it's bad at those times, of course I'm gonna think there will be no visit. so I guess I better watch anything I say now. cuz now they're starting to really fuck everything up and twist everything I say and do. and of course, everyone will believe their story before even thinking to hear mine.