OK. is this selfish and ungrateful of me... I'm getting hand me down clothes for my bbyshower ,…

Not selfish, it happens! I've thrown away clothes that were hand me downs simply because I knew my child would never wear them so I made room for other clothes she would wear. I hung onto some preemie clothes in case my daughter needed them she didn't, but never a bad thing to have just in case. a baby doesn't even have to be a preemie to wear those clothes they can just be little. 5lbs or so!

Its good to have just in case, me being the youngest of 5, hand-me-downs dont bother me as long as i know where and how they were taken care of... I go to second-hand stores and buy practically brand new baby onsies and outfits for $1 each.. Thats amazing! And ive been around retail so i know newer clothes but the feel.. Although if people were giving me "rags" as i like to call them, where they are seriously worn out clothes with holes or the seams are unraveling ... I'll be kinda mad. But its really the thought that counts, unless you know they can actually afford nicer clothes then thats just them being rude. Like my fiance's friend stuggles alot with bills but managed to get a couple new walmart outfits. Yet one of my girl friends gave me her baby's super old "rags" stains and holes everywhere, like cmon seriously. If this guy can barely make rent yet buy us new outfits, your lazy ass can go to walmart and spend $5. So no i get it too.

my son showed NO signs of being premature, was weighing accordingly I had no health issues and then BAM. 34 Weeks my water just broke in the middle of the night out of no where. unfortunately I listened to everyone saying how big my baby was gunnu be and he didn't fit in any of his clothes at the hospital had to send people to pick out my sons going home outfit which made me sad because i was so picky on it ! lol so better Safe than sorry