so. here I am. I am 21 years old and I just found out that my biological father is my moms first husband. not my "father" I know. which isn't all bad because hes a peice of work. but not im stuck in a sad place. let me break this down. my bio dad has two daughters. one died when she was 3 a few years ago and he has another daughter. I'm not sure how old she is or her name. so I have two half sisters on his side. then I have another half sister whom I thought was my full sister my entire life. her name is anna. she has four half brothers. who I still consider my brothers because i love them soooooo much. they are my world. I am 32 weeks pregnant and im in all this mess. my fiance is adopted but he does not speak too them. he followed his birth mother to Michigan. .. she's. ....evil. psychotic. not like him. but now were both worried about our daughter. what families will we introduced her to? and who will we tell her they are? you have aunts and sort of uncles. I haven't told my siblings about what I know. or their dad. he will want to be a part of our life but....im not sure that is what is best for our daughter.
My dad had alot of kids before he died but he also would call the kids that his girlfriends already had before they met his kids . I call all them my brother and sisters we may not be blood but we are siblings . Those will be my daughters aunts and uncles . I think you should just think of it like that and go from there its going to be a while before she even can ask why do you have two dads etc by then you would already be comfortable with it .
thank you! and its just weird because my other dad thinks im his biological. so I know hes an ass would sue me back for child support. he isnt a good man by any means. hes a terrible dad and all five of his kids hate him. but just curious