Okay this might be long so bear with me please. When my boyfriend was 12 he started dating the daughter of his parents close high school friend, let's call her T. They dated for like 2 years, he lost his virginity to her, they broke up and became more like best friends so now almost 7 years later she's considered family.
Well me and my boyfriend's cousin are super close now and she just recently spent the weekend with T. (I just wanna throw out there that I have never talked to T until a week ago to ask her address for my baby shower) and on Sunday his cousin came to me to tell me never to trust T caus she wants my boyfriend and always will and apparently she's like a really psycho bitch who wants to break us up so she can take my man and play mommy with my daughter. But she's part of the family so how the hell do i handle this situation??
I understand completely, but if there's a solid trust between you and your hubby I'd let those insecurities take a back seat. You are his #1. If you feel like you need reassurance just talk to him about it .
Thank you :) it kinda made me go coocoo for a bit just because I've had a lot of insecurities about this girl simply because of how close her and m boyfriend were and everyone, even my mother in law, tells me she's a manipulative b***h and not to trust her so when i heard this i flipped out
Unless you think there's a real threat I would ignore the comments. If there is something shady she's up to it will come to light eventually. But it'll just make you look like the crazy one if you do anything rash because of this gossip. Who knows, maybe the cousin wants to stir up trouble. Stay calm and collected for baby.