*(sorry rant!)* I swear my husband tries to find any excuse he has to get out of taking care of our son at night and it really pisses me off. Our son usually sleeps from 9pm until 2am but last night he ended up wanting to be fed at midnight so I get up and feed him and my husband says he'll feed him at 330. So 330 comes along, baby is sound asleep and my husband's alarm goes off loud as hell and of course wakes the baby up so I tell him he should be fed and doesn't my husband say he can't because he has to get ready for work soon? Like seriously? He wakes the baby up with his alarm that went off for like 3 minutes straight when he was sleeping so soundly and then doesn't want to deal with the consequences of it. He was getting up for work anyway and he usually leaves around 430 but says he doesn't have time to feed him. So then I get pissed at him saying that it's not fair and he should feed him if he woke him up especially when he has time... Then he gets pissed at me and says I kept him up when I fed the baby the first time which I did not.. he went right to sleep while I fed him, and that I can sleep whenever I want during the day which again isn't exactly true because the baby only sleeps for about 20 minutes at a time during the day so by the time I'd fall asleep he would be awake again. Then just to shut my husband up I told him to just forget it and give me a bottle to feed him and instead he storms into the other room saying he'll just be late for work... he's so infuriating.
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@ivansmommy15, he'll get up to feed him usually but it's not like he'll do anything extra like change diapers which I keep getting on him for that. He just does the bare minimum and that's it... if I try to ask him to do anything else he gets pissy. I shouldn't even have to ask anyway...
this sounds super familiar, my husband use to pull this before he got promoted to an even harder job, I think he got tired of us bickering about it lol
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I know this sounds sooo fkedup but sometimes i wanna get into a bad accident so my husband sees exactly all the things i do ... and how wrong he is by saying i don’t do enough ( not in those words but the jist of it ) anyway .... i think this all the time . Maybe then he will think differently .
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
Subject = husbands/s.o.
Does your s.o help with baby at night? Like, oh idk with feedings? Haha Mine tries to but he gets up early for work so I guess that opts him out of caring for baby at night? I'm a sahm currently. It's the weekend and my husband can sleep through our sons crying on the baby monitor that is on my husbands night stand lol on loud!!! I knew he slept like a hibernating bear but how in the world can he sleep through such a thing? I can't believe it. And he was totally suppose...
so my husband wants to feed are baby but the thing is that I will be breastfeeding so idk how it would work. he was thinking that when he wants to feed him he would give him formula but I just want my baby to have breast milk. so then he said why don't you pump your milk out and I'll feed it to him and i thought that would be the best thing but then I'm scared that my baby will get use to the bottle. I need help idk what to do because my husband really wants to feed him :/ and we need to come up...
some guys just don't understand, all I ask for is a little help at night. If you get upset they brand you as bitchy. I've also kind of given up asking him, he's going to do want he wants to. it's whatever.