*(sorry rant!)* I swear my husband tries to find any excuse he has to get out of taking care of our son at night and it really pisses me off. Our son usually sleeps from 9pm until 2am but last night he ended up wanting to be fed at midnight so I get up and feed him and my husband says he'll feed him at 330. So 330 comes along, baby is sound asleep and my husband's alarm goes off loud as hell and of course wakes the baby up so I tell him he should be fed and doesn't my husband say he can't because he has to get ready for work soon? Like seriously? He wakes the baby up with his alarm that went off for like 3 minutes straight when he was sleeping so soundly and then doesn't want to deal with the consequences of it. He was getting up for work anyway and he usually leaves around 430 but says he doesn't have time to feed him. So then I get pissed at him saying that it's not fair and he should feed him if he woke him up especially when he has time... Then he gets pissed at me and says I kept him up when I fed the baby the first time which I did not.. he went right to sleep while I fed him, and that I can sleep whenever I want during the day which again isn't exactly true because the baby only sleeps for about 20 minutes at a time during the day so by the time I'd fall asleep he would be awake again. Then just to shut my husband up I told him to just forget it and give me a bottle to feed him and instead he storms into the other room saying he'll just be late for work... he's so infuriating.
@ivansmommy15, he'll get up to feed him usually but it's not like he'll do anything extra like change diapers which I keep getting on him for that. He just does the bare minimum and that's it... if I try to ask him to do anything else he gets pissy. I shouldn't even have to ask anyway...
some guys just don't understand, all I ask for is a little help at night. If you get upset they brand you as bitchy. I've also kind of given up asking him, he's going to do want he wants to. it's whatever.