I agree with @ladybug01 and @k28 Don't put up with that shit and if he's been doing that and hiding it he's not worth it and they don't change!

from experience this happened to me when i was married before and found out the same thing you do and all i can say is that things got worse. He never changed and he never tried, I put up with his crap for 5 years til I decided to call it quits and got a divorce. It's tough but make sure you understand that it is not you... you did nothing wrong and don't blame yourself for it bc i did for a long time when instead it was him doing everything wrong. focus on you and your baby and put your foot down! respect yourself to walk away from anyone who isn't going to put you and your child first. good luck girl! he is not worth your tears. stay strong

Confront him! That is not okay. He should be focusing on his little family. If he wants to go elsewhere then you are better off without him. Hope you figure it out, best of luck to you. Be a strong woman 💪🏻

well.. you're the wife.. confront him! but calm down first.. i pray everything works out...

@lilfree16, that's the thing I don't know if he has acted on it.... he works 12+ hours a day who's to say he's not really at work.... it's not like I know for sure he's not with someone else.... I'm at home 24/7...

okay just take it a day at a time.. im not for throwing away marriages..but its different when the other spouse is lurking.. personally, if he hasnt acted on it.. its all talk.. but keep your guard up.. and talk to him about it when you calm down .. you need honesty and maybe you guys can go to counseling.

@lilfree16, I don't know, I mean I don't want to end our relationship but I don't want it be in one where he doesn't seem to want to be committed...... I just am so hurt by this that I don't know what I really want yet...

thats hard.. because you guys are married.. would you want to work it out?