Miserable this whole pregnancy😞 is it bad i question whether or not this was the best decision? I…

I was the same way off and on but the closer we got to the due date especially after the baby shower it got better. This pregnancy wasn't planned so we thought about adoption for the first 3 months then things started looking up more and we decided that with the support we're getting from friends and family that we'd be okay. Now I kind of kick myself for having those thoughts but it was hard not to mainly because I was scared and everyone did nothing but tell me how hard it'd be as a 21 year old full time student and part time worker for my boyfriend and I, no one told me all the good things that I had to realize myself.

^ agreed

No thank you so much @sabby

I think its just bc im alone .. My boyfriend didnt want the bby n decided to leave me bc i kept it @scc2413

Although that's something I can't really relate to, it'll get better. You'll have the thought that you made the wrong decision, then you'll think about why you made the right decision. It's like clockwork. Just last week at 37 weeks after we had everything set up, I started second guessing whether or not we could really do this. Like someone above said, it's nature to worry like this but once you realize all the good to come out of it, you'll know you made the right decision. It just takes time and sometimes 40 weeks isn't enough until you actually have your baby in your arms.

@paitientlywaitingonmyprince, my first sons father took off couple months after I got pregnant......my son is going to be 10 now and he's still nowhere to be found! You can do it.