Will it be selfish to not let my husband in the delivery room or do I not have a choice ?

you have a choice, but why wouldn't you want him in the room? if you don't mind me asking ?

@cheche27, you definitely do have a choice but I dont think that's the right one, sorry momma…

@tmills, everything he put me through . Maybe Its just cause I'm upset right now

@b3autifulm3ss, yea me either but since he wants to leave me n his daughter why should I let him experience happiness with me

well if he doesn't want to be with u that's u and him never let ur relationship with him define his relationship with his children

agree with @susylove0410 you never want to hinder his relationship with his child.

I agree with @susylove0410 you should never let yours and his relationship affect the bond and relationship between him and your baby

@@susylove0410 your are so right.. I'm probably just talking out of anger which I shouldn't.. He's the only person I have here !

u never want ur child to ask u why u kept them away from their father

@susylove0410, yea I know that will break my heart but the thought of living in two different state n two different homes breaks my heart 😩

You don't have to let him in the delivery room. He can sit outside then after you deliver he can come in. That will not set the tone for your daughter and his relationship. If its something that you will feel uncomfortable with then I say don't do it. He has the rest of her life to enjoy her. He made that decision for you when he did what he did.

I agree ^^^ I might be doing the same. Just so I can relax more during the labor and birth. Hope all goes well for you💗