Well ladies I was right as soon as I spoke up about stuff that was bothering me about him not…

I would just leave girlie, you seem like you'd be happier

Wish it was that easy, we have two babies already one on the way and no where for me to live with the kids. He bought and paid for all the stuff for them since I've not had a job since my oldest was born, and my husband tells me all the time he will keep all there stuff if I leave.

Just leave him. You don't need his negativity.

Hopefully I can get things setup for me and the kids and I can. Right now we have absolutely no where to go.

I don't think it's fair that you're angry because he doesn't help if he works to support you because you don't have a job and your two kids /: you have to understand that he's tired working nights isn't a walk in the park he has to rest sometime if you don't like the way it's going than maybe you should talk about getting a job so both of you could work and both of you could clean or you get a job and he stays at home. There's a lot of woman who would be blessed to be able to stay at home watching there kids grow. But can't because there husbands are deadbeat cherish what you have

you have to press the @ and type in the persons name so they can see what you posted

The only thing my fiancé is responsible for around my house is lifting heavy things And the yard work and trash other than that I clean the house up

I've had a job since I've had our two kids then I got pregnant with our third. He had no job at that point and I was still doing everything and paying a babysitter since he couldn't handle them. I'm upset because I'm on a weight limit due to being high risk and he can't manage to take our trash as he leaves for work. I'm glad and do cherish what I have but I didn't have my kids on my own either. That being said I just need to vent to him sometimes but he gets mad and tells me it's my fault. @princess_intheoven16

@lae1988 that is all I want him to do is take out trash. I do everything else which I don't mind but he told me that it's my job too. I can't lift it anymore.

O lol that wouldn't fly with me my fiancé works 7:30 to 6:30 every day only off on Sunday's and he does all his yard work on Sunday's he knows he has chores just like the rest of us we have to work together on keeping our house cleaned up

sometimes what we think is venting in reality isn't to them talk to him gently and just remind him everyday to take out the trash don't resort to leaving your marriage because of trash. I have to remind my husband a bunch of times to do things, that's just how men are

Like I said he doesn't want to do anything since he's always tired. All I want is for him to take trash out.

@lae1988,