So I told my mom I wanted a natural birth with a midwife and she flipped. told me I better go to a obgyn, if I wanna do midwife for my 2nd or third child OK but not my first. I was so hurt that she was tryna talk me out of it, almost tryna tell me that I better not. and my mother has a way if saying things and being like OK don't listen to me, and blah blah blah will happen.....and Everytime I don't listen what ever bad she has spoken happens....I don't need that negative spoken over me, my body or my childs life. I can't believe she isn't supporting my midwife & non-hospital decision :'(