So how many ppl should I invite to the gender reveal/pamper party? Mind you it's NOT a baby shower.…

I had one! it was fun, about 10-15 close friends and family. but keeping the secret was the hardest part. 😂

How many did you invite tho? Or who you invited showed up?

I have 43 so far, I'm thinking all these ppl won't show up...

we had a picnic for the 4th of July for our gender reveal lol so we had a lot of people at ours

Was that considered your reveal only, or your shower too @sarahdrew

reveal only shower was after she was born (it was my second baby)

Not too many, just a few to enjoy the moment. I only invited 20 people to mines on yesterday and it was a huge success ! I'm having the actual shower June 25 and plan on it being a HUGE cookout 😆

Thanks @sarahdrew, @krisnicole3 did you only invite 20 and that's who showed or you did less?

you are welcome

it's hard to suggest number, bc it's depends how big your family is, how close you are with your family etc. I'm personally think that is best to invite all close family and friends

Thanks @domena84! being I was asked to do this separately I need to consider making it smaller. I mean she is paying for it.

if you think you're having to many ppl, it's always safer to cut off friend, bc you can explain to them that the party was family only ;) if you cut off someone from close family you can hear it for rest of your life ;) good luck :)

lol@domena84 I'm in a totally different state than my family, but some are coming, and my husband's side too. Right now I chopped it to about 25..

I invited 20 people and only 2 people didn't show up. they were only close and immediate friends and family. which was ok with me