So, my husband's dad is dating a woman who he's been off and on with, whom I've never met. The other day she messages me on Facebook (we're not even Facebook friends, she removed me a while back for unknown reasons) and she's like "I'd like to see my grandson" (my son was just born a few weeks ago).... like.... is it wrong of me to feel bothered she called him her grandson? She's not married to my father in law, she's met my husband maybe four times max, and I've never even met the woman. I dunno, for some reason it just kind of put me into protective mode when she said that. Like this woman I hardly know is already making claims to my son. I wasn't rude or anything to her about it, I kinda just went along with it and told her we'd have to find a time for it and left it at that. Am I just being weird and crazy for feeling the way I do?
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Thank you, that's how I see it! I will be giving it time, I haven't attempted to actually find a time for her to see him yet lol I was bothered so much by her saying that I kinda just want to put it off for as long as possible ha @sonjaeg
Girl you have the right to feel protective, rude, or whatever else when it comes to your baby.. In fact you should feel that way... I would definitely give it some time, i would have told her I'd would at least like to meet her first...smh
Yeah it felt really weird to me, but I didn't want to say anything because I was afraid of causing issues between my husband and his dad or something :/ I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought it was weird of her to say that though. @alleyelisabeth
I would of been like I really don't feel comfortable with you calling him your grandson and me and you barely know each other. I just wouldn't trust it. Sounds like she's using the baby as a crutch too get more into the family.
I definitely understand that