Okay so if the mother is supposed to be the first to know like how soon the baby is gonna be born…

Okay so if the mother is supposed to be the first to know like how soon the baby is gonna be born then why the hell is my grandma arguing with me and telling me I'm wrong?? I feel so insulted even if I am wrong like no she's in my body not yours just because you've had 2 kids doesn't mean that the early early signs of her coming are going to be like anything that you dealt with! and she said herself that I'm nesting so why am I not allowed to be concerned about when my babies clothes get washed? what if I just want to do it instead because she's my child and not yours? and that's one of the last things to do to prepare for her other than move my room around and get the crib from my father and none of that is gonna get done any sooner than the men in my life work on it since I'm not allowed to lift or use a table saw and so I'm sorry if laundry is something that I can still do and if I want to do it because it will make me feel like things are getting done and it will make me feel better!!