some pics I see on fb makes me sad because of what happened to caleb after birth...I didn't get to do bonding or anything :( he was taken and flown right after birth to another hospital in another state so I couldn't even hold him :/ I shouldn't be upset because he's doing good, but I can't help it...does this make me a bad person? :(
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@frozenessence, awe..did you know he had heart defects while pregnant?
@kenzie15, yes!!! it makes me tear up...he was born 36 weeks with heart defects. I saw him the next day before he was flown out...I just wanted to hold him and kiss him once :( I dealt with ppd after his birth and idk if that's why?
Not at all. I didn't get to bond with my daughter either. She was born early at around 33 weeks. They showed me a glimpse of her after I pushed her out and took her right to the NICU. I still get emotional about it when I see stuff on facebook of folks bonding with their baby after birth.
I understand! My daughter born at 27 weeks and I got a glimpse of her as well before she was taken to another hospital. It was real hard but I was able to call and check on her. Then I was released to the hospital where she was. When I got to see her all I could do was cry.