i don't think its right for ur "best Friend" to make u constantly feel like shit!! I have never had a friendship so…
i don't think its right for ur "best Friend" to make u constantly feel like shit!! I have never had a friendship so toxic in my life. it sucks because she is there when i need something but if i don't do what she wants or thinks is right im an asshole.. im like thats fuc#ed up.. everyone has issues with family but in the end they love u.. i get that she don't have family she can count on so her friend's r very important but my family cares about me and when she upsets me obviously they get upset with her. my friend holds grudges like u wouldn't believe. i took my step mom with me to frozen on ice last night with my daughter and my friend calls me and says u brought that ass hole with u.. like excuses me. my daughter loves her nana.. wether i always get along with her her Love don't waver for my baby. i feel like she had no right to say that.. she is mad that i went. i chose to go to Disney on ice ..my friend is currently in Disneyland. its like she wouldn't have been able to go with me anyway.. plus when i bought the tickets i asked if she wanted to go she said no. she wasn't gunna pay hella money to go... so why is she mad.. i think it's cuz she would want me to bring one of her kids instead.. like really..u are always trying to get something. she is a great friend on her terms but if i don't do what she wants she is pissed. i know i should not give her the power to make me upset but i can't help it. i don't like people upset with me but at this point it's like its not worth the friendship. but like last week i had no One to pick up my daughter from Day care cuz she was sick. i couldn't reach her nana and my friend was willing to get her no problem and im like im thankful for her. her nana ended up getting my daughter but its nice to have someone to depend on. i dont have any other friends i can call!! im so upset my family is tired of hearing about her. they want me to cut ties. but then i feel i have no dependable friends!! what do i do!!!
pattalee·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)
would you rather have a friend that's going to constantly make you feel like shit or give someone else the chance to be a better friend than she is? friendships, just like relationships, are not one sided. she needs to give you the same respect you give her or you need to remove her from your life. she is not the kind of person you need your child growing up around
Tracy·
Мама дочки (2 года)
i know i just feel like i have no other friends.. thats why I'm conflicted i know its unhealthy. ty for responding@arijane316
pattalee·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)
no problem. I understand. but at the same time, you don't want or need toxic people in yours or your child's life.
madilynn16·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (37 нед.)
I have a friend like that I don't communicate with her like I use to because it like I was more of a friend to her than she was to me.
Kenna Fahrenwald·
Мама сына (6 лет)
I had this friend not to long ago, we were actually roommates for a while. I can honestly say it's not worth it. I ended getting to fed up with it. She insulted my family and that's not okay, no matter how I feel about them. I would confront her and tell her how you feel and what she's doing is wrong. If you can't make her see that she's never going to change.
Tracy·
Мама дочки (2 года)
ty ladies for reading and responding i was so upset this morning @arijane316 @haetleymama @lovemyson_610 @nikkisummers @mom-09-16 @madilynn16