Everyone told me I couldn't spoil my baby when there so little .. but he only wants to sleep in my arms or near me ...…

Of course. I know how it feels to have people tell you that. And honestly they have no business telling you that. It's your baby and even science proves they can't be spoiled. You're building the foundations of trust and a great bond 💕

Aww love that thanks gorgeousb@tae23

You can't spoil a baby. If someone tells you that you can they are wrong. You're teaching them that they can trust you.

Hahha me too bc I'm at 5 weeks @penaloza

lol I know what you mean my baby girl is only 6 weeks, looks like I have 4 years 10 months & 2 weeks to go lol

Yes I don't want any one around my kids except my parents but I'm not at that point were I can leave him alone it's only been a month but never with my mother in law lol @penaloza

ikr as soon as you have baby , its easy to stop working, I didn't work with none of mine till they were in school,I don't like no one to watch my babies only me lol,but its not a bad thing you will just have a stronger connection and you won't regret it,its worth I to me

@penaloza, yes at first I was like hesitant to give up working but now I'm glad bc I would miss everything with my precious !

@mommytobe0220, I just realized you had him I'm all having a conversation with you and didn't even realize you have birthhhhh

ikr I'm the same way I use to wait for her to open her eyes and as soon as she did I picked her up,the first 3weeks we were home lol now I'm able to control myself and not picking her up as soon as she open her eyes,but when she starts whinning,its mommy to the rescue lol .and I'm not working right now either I told hubby I want to be with baby girl and he just told me its fine,ahhhh gotta love my man😄😉

Yesssss😍 I can't stop and stare 👶

@maggie1129, @tristan-makes-5 @meganeileen6 @mommytobe0220 @penaloza there so cute and precious and it's hard to resist cuddling plus I have no job so I just give him all my time and I'm also annoying like when I put him in his crib I miss him hahaha so like the doctors said you can't spoil the baby and yes there use to your heart beat and scent and feeling close to you this big ol world is still very new to them :)

mine is the same way, and your right it's hard to resist everyone mine cries I pick her up

my mom told me bc they miss being inside our tummy and miss our heartbeat sounds 💖

omfg same here😱 my baby only wants me andd to sleep near me😍

i dont think you can spoil a newborn either. like that post said...a baby as young as yours wont cry for no reason..i say bring on the cuddles! :) P is 4 months old now & my best friend! She loves being close to me but on occasion she will let me know when she wants to just relax in her swing or something without me being in her face with all of the "omg youre soo cute!" 😍

I say there's nothing wrong with that he's still little it's the same way at my house@babybermea

@babybermea, lol my daughter is still in bed with me and sleeps in my arms lol

Thank you !! That's what the doctor and lactation counselor told me too but I wanted to ask other mommys @marmber

I hit post by mistake.. D'oh! I read an article how newborns are meant to be held and carried. It it was from the La Leche League. They will tell you when they don't want to held.

Absolutely not! There's no such thing as spoiling a newborn. InThey'll tell you when they don't want to be help

Yes I was about to buy it but then I got caught up on preggie hahaha doing it now @katrina12143 thanks doll

get that wonder weeks app. it explains so much!!!! I swear by it lol @babybermea

@katrina12143, Yesss that's exactly what he's doing !!!!!!!! @ez 🙌🏽😂lol

😂😂😂😂so true lmao

my son is the exact same way right now!! it's definitely a developmental stage that happens around 4 to 5 weeks. you CAN'T spoil a newborn. :)

Lol oh well it's so hard to resist them ahhaha I was always like omg he's so cute then I would grab him from his crib or bassinet hahahah lmao mothers #fail @ez

Yep pretty sure. My son is the same way he is also a month!