plus when i asked him who would watch his kids while i was gone he said he would which makes his working excuse doesnt count

i am rather pissed my daughters bday party is going on down there that weekend and he wont suck it up and meet my ex. he does have work but he had vacation hours he straight told me he wasnt going to go

I would be so pissed!

unless he actually has something to do .

If he cares enough he will not let u go alone he will go with u .