Lol that was years ago they use to exclude men from the baby showers. Everybody's welcomed.
Some people say no some people have coed ones. I'm having one without and two coed
I had guys at mine...us girls had the baby shower and the guys had a diaper party where they brought a pack of diapers
you could politely decline her doing your shower if she wants to make it about her
I had guys at mine we even used my little girls dad for some of the games.. like one we pinned baby items to him and everyone only had so long to see him then had to remember what he had on him
it's all up to you. some people have only women some people do both, your choice
facts thats what im saying shes being spiteful and she wants it to be what she wants i cant even know my theme
thanks