did the 'stop trying' method work with any of you ladies? if so did it speed it up?

absolutely, I tried for 5 years and never happened

yeah, I told everyone that I couldn't have babies after a year and a half of trying 3 times a day (and a miscarriage ) and I got pregnant lol

when I finally said F@#% it, it just happened here I am almost 28 weeks

Yeah! a year and a half after 2 MCs and I told him I just wanted to wait now and a month later I'm pregnant lol

last month was our first month not thinking about it, I was two weeks late so I got super excited..false alarm. I guess I should just stop thinking about it too:)

thanks for the input guys it really puts things in perspective. we haven't been trying nearly as long as you guys were

yes we tried for four years and nothing happen the moment we started to give up it happened there is nothing wrong with trying I wish you well

4 miscarriages in 2 years. the minute we quit trying the next month I came up pregnant

thank you @wafiyahd and I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriages @xbbycolletto glad you finally got your rainbow baby

yes we tried so hard for 8 months and nothing would happen I would feel so bad so after a while we just gave up and BOOM three weeks later I got a positive :)

My husband and I prayed about it! I was told I couldn't have children and so far we are 17 weeks +2 days.

Yes we tried for 6 months and finally I said im done I give up because everybody around us was getting pregnant without planning and here we are trying with nothing. Got pregnant within a month later but lost it and then got pregnant again and I now have a 2 month old!