So they didn't check me to see if im dialated once again. I told my so and he gets pissed at me like…

Omg, now that's too much, the baby will come when its ready, we can try to do anything for it to come faster, but its what the baby decides.!

some places wont check you unless you ask

@stephnagy2, the thing is they said they were gonna check the next appointment but then decided not to

@baby_2016, i tried to tell him that and I still have a week till she's due

did you happen to mention it or ask why? you're 39 weeks they should be at least curious.

just be patient girl, take it slowly.

don't get too stressed over what he says

That's strange though. By now, they want to start checking you. I'd call and ask if you wanted to be sure.

@mommagotbump16, @stephnagy2 my midwife told me that they wont start checking till i start having contractions but i have been having so much pain down there from her moving down

That makes a little more sense, but usually they want to know if you're already dilated to start with. Ex: there's a girl I work with that was 4 cm before she even hit her due date, and her labor was just a few hours. Not saying your midwife doesn't know what she's doing-I just think it's odd considering you've been in pain already @rileysmommy2016

@mommagotbump16, it just bugs me cause the past 3 appointments they were gonna check but didn't it's getting frustrating