so my husband just got this girl at work and he told me he got into a argument with her the other…

hmmm maybe he didnt introduce yu to her bc they got into a argument ? 😯

girl I'd be pissed I'd go up in there and make my presence known .

@valerie96, the argument was two days ago I met everyone like a week or so ago!

@jasalynnsmommy the problem with that is he's in the army I go in acting stupid he can get kicked out of the army or get this rank taken. but trust me I find out he's cheating everyone will know he cheated and with who and because in the army that's a no no ID get most of the stuff we have together and him and her would lose their jobs! I'm not the type to play dirty if we split because of something besides cheating I'd give him everything and start over but cheating nope I'm gonna play dirty if he's willing to cheat he's already playing dirty!

I would have walked up shook her hand said nice to meet you im his wife! 😎

@deannapooley, at the time I didn't think of much! when she first got there him and all his friends said she was a slut and that half of the guys have ready slept with her. I told him fucking look at her in a flirty way I will kill you and her and he said no he'd never she's gross. and when I seen her I didn't know who she was. he introduced me to other girls there and I figured one of them was this girl.

@tiffanybrazeal, has he ever given u a reason not to trust him? My husband is a firefighter and i know there could be some slutty little firehouse whores lmao but not at his firehouse in other ones within our town.

Remind him that adultry is against military laws. He could possibly get a rank tooken away if he gets caught.

@deannapooley, no not really! like he has liked girls pictures but he's never tried talking to any of them and if I tell him I don't like this girl he will delete them! every army wife I'm friends with that has baby's their husbands cheat when they are pregnant and I'm so scared that will happen to me so every little thing now scares me! he knows that if he cheats I'm going back home there is no sorry nothing I'm gone! I've given up my whole life to move here for him! I'm not the kind of girl to let a guy do that to me. you cheat you obviously don't care about me so bye! I don't know if I'm being pregnant and paranoid or if my heart and gut is telling me something

@tiffanybrazeal, the best advice i can give you is to have a heart to heart conversation. Lay the cards down on the table and tell him if u want to be with someone else then do it but im not gonna stick around and be pregnant carrying our child while your sleeping around! Look for clues too when he comes home the smell of him, does he leave his phone on silent does he have a password and do u know it does. And does he delete messages

@deannapooley, I know he password to his phone and I can have his phone when ever I want. he comes home smelling like work! he doesn't go out on the weekends and when he does he snap chat me pretty much the whole time and I trust his friends. I just asked him about it and he said he blocked her because she tried getting his friend introuble by saying he was showing people pictures of her which his friend has a wife so I'm kinda ify on it and his reason why he didn't introduce me was because he doesn't like her and doesn't talk to her. I'm like wtf I don't know what to think!

@slwwesselman, he knows this! everyone in the military knows that.

@tiffanybrazeal, sorry if I offended you on my comment about that I will now avoid commenting on your posts because I don't want to feel stupid by trying to give advice.

@tiffanybrazeal, just trust him he seems like a great guy dont rack ur brain thinking what ifs , just enjoy your pregnancy and your marriage 😊

@slwwesselman, no I'm sorry that my comment seemed rude I didn't mean to sound rude I ment like everyone knows that who is in the military but I'm sure more than half of them still cheat. I'm so sorry that I sounded rude

but u said you consider what Led up to their argument flirting right? and u met her before the argument? sooo how is him not introducing you because he doesn't like her a valid reason if their fight wasn't until after that?