not to mention I got pregnant by him before they got together. I could understand if he cheated on her and got me pregnant but that's not the case at all.

thanks ladies, makes me feel better as to the way I feel about it. @gypsy.soul2 @ilyric @mazeyy09 . it's getting to the point that he has decided to leave the woman because she is very disrespectful towards the situation, and has brought it to our attention she hopes the baby dies or the baby and I both die during delivery.. since he has made that decision it's 10X worse. it's jealousy on her part because she had decided to burn, cut and tie her tubes and can not give him a child and here I am. I told him I understand what it was and what it wasn't and there hasn't been any issue between him and I or myself towards her. I know it's possible to CO parent and not be together but she doesn't. it's just ridiculous because as a woman she should understand and accept if she loved him. it's just frustrating because it shouldn't be this way. again thanks ladies.

but most of the time there a tension on her side because it's some type of jealousy

my friend is currently going through this.. when they went to court she asked that the girlfriend not be around for pick up drop off or events until she could be respectful of her stance as the mothers child. it worked

my sister does which I end up having to deal with it too...if he makes sure that she respects you as his child's mother which she should it shouldn't be an issue

Yep. Just remember that everything with your child is to be dealt with you and him, don't even mind what she says.