I use conditioner

hair conditioner or a liquid body soap

I use coco butter lotion to shave with down there... it's the only thing that doesn't break me out

I have been using EOS brand for years, it's more of a shaving lotion. I have horribly sensitive skin so I really slather it on about half way through my shower so my skin and hair is nice and soft from the hot water and I reapply as I go.

either coochy creme from pure romance, of hair conditioner.. leave it on your skin for a good 5 minutes before you start shaving and it'll help soften up the hair follicle making it easier to shave