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Jessica P
Jessica P
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

Is anyone else going to be giving birth without their significant other being there? my boyfriend is halfway across the…

Is anyone else going to be giving birth without their significant other being there? my boyfriend is halfway across the country trying to get us established by may so we can all permanently move and he is going to miss the baby being born 😢 I know when I go into labor I am gonna be sad knowing he won't be there

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jess1ca

Jessica P

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

well I wish you the best of luck when the time comes mama! @mrsthig

mrsthig

deleted_user

Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (22 нед.)

One just had a baby (she's a no go), the other is 14 (also a no go) & my eldest is afraid she'll miss it because my labor was so quick with my daughter

jess1ca

Jessica P

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

I'm pretty sure my mom will be there.. she does travel with her job sometimes so hopefully she will be around. and will any of your sisters come ? they might be able to be there for some of it @mrsthig

jess1ca

Jessica P

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

@mrsthig, I know! cause my bf was amazing with my daughter he really helped me through it 😞 we will get through it but it won't be the same

jujulove13

Julianna

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (28 нед.)

no problem love :)

jess1ca

Jessica P

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

@jujulove13, thanks girl and its true may is very close 😊

girlmom__

Caitlyn

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I would talk to your mom and see if she'd FaceTime him for you!!

jess1ca

Jessica P

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

I wouldn't mind someone face timing during labor, but I might only have my mom with me so idk if there would be anyone to do it haha. and the only thing that makes it a little better is that he saw our daughter be born. so at least this time around I know what to expect with labor since I won't have him there helping me through @_idekcats

jujulove13

Julianna

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (28 нед.)

im sorry your going through that sweetie :( maybe you can try video chat while your I'm labor so he can atleast see? your strong love and may is rite around the corner :)

girlmom__

Caitlyn

В ожидании первенца

I am so sorry honestly I'd be depressed if that happened, but the nurses are super supportive the whole time as I've watched with both my sister and aunt! I'm sure they'll be a great support system for you and so will everyone else! Maybe you could have someone FaceTime him if you were comfortable with that happening while you were in labor?

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

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Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

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