Long rant. So my father calls me the other day to tell me him,my step mom and 2 younger siblings will be in the Philippines for 3 weeks in April. I'm due in April. Now he isn't sure if they will be able to afford to come see me in June like promised. I am so mad at him. I get my step mom wants to see her family,but seriously after all these years you go the month my 1st child is due! I normally talk to my dad daily,how am I gonna talk to him or tell him his granddaughter is born?! Sorry long rant I'm just so annoyed.
I love my daad and step mom but they really puss me off. I know how you feel my girls are 3 and 4 and they still haven't seen them. well they have through Skype . they live in nv I live in nc. I'm so sorry I know it's really hard and you have every right to feel upset !
@jaklynsmommy, I completely understand. I would be upset too. It's hard not to have family around especially at times like this.
@ninjamami, yea, it just annoys me because he kept picking asking when I was gonna have a baby so he can finally have a grandchild he could see. She's coming and he's leaving. We don't live in the same state. I'm in NC he's in ID so I'm not sure when he will see her or if any of my family will come out. I thought for sure he would in June. He's been warned that if he doesn't come out without or with my siblings I'm gonna be mad at him.
@jaklynsmommy, aww I'm sorry. That really sucks. At least you know he has a lifetime to spend with his Granddaughter.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...

Should i reach out to my baby father and tell him his kid has been born today was my original due date but i had her nov 25 I haven’t talked to him in 4months ...
*Rant My fiances mom called him lastnight (shes never been there for him) and was like you didnt tell me you had a baby on the way ,he said i did you just never listen ...she said oka well i guess youll tell me when its born so we can get a paternity test because im not going to be involved if its not yours
i told him he can call her back and tell her mfn ass she wont be in my sons life and no she wont know when hes born and that she can kiss my ass (excuse my lauguage) and that i dont respect ...
@ninjamami, @aivey2911 I'm closer to him then I am my mom lately. I know he'll try,but his health can cause problems at times. They've been talking for the past few years about going to see her family. it's been 8 years since they've been back. Her family hasn't met my sister,but I mean of all months to go. He said it was the cheapest.