my son just told my fiance "you're not my dad"... I think he broke his heart... my fiance is the…

That's rough, would someone have influenced him to say that or does he actually know he's not is biological dad?

he knows he isn't his biological dad.. their biological dad's grandparents and aunt are still very involved in their lives... but their dad has been in prison since they were 11 months old.. my fiance came into their lives when they were 3.. they just turned 5... :/ @scc2413

Maybe he's seen picture's at his grandparents or something. Idk how I'd handle that but maybe ask who told him to say that or ask why? Or even say something like how you know he's not his real dad but he likes being there for him and stuff.

my fiance took him aside and told him that it really hurt his feelings because he is his son no matter what and that he loves him @scc2413

Unfortunately it always happens... My nephew hasn't seen his real "dad" since he was 4 months old... but he knew that my brother wasnt his real dad and that his real dad had the same name as him (michale) well my brother got on to him for something and he looked at my brother and was like you're not my dad Anthony. and my brother cried for hours... my nephew was only about 6.. :( and my brother has been there since he was 7 months old... it's sad, and so hard, but it's almost inevitable :(

I know :( I felt so terrible... but I'm happy with the way he handled it! @littlemissrainesmommy

That's a good start. He honestly could just be having more thought about his real dad, especially with his dad's family still being involved in his life. I wouldn't worry too much about it though. As long as your fiance shows him how much he does love him, he'll forget all about saying what he did and go back to normal. Kids say a lot of things and don't even remember it a few days later.

sounds like he handled it perfectly!!! one day when they are way older they will understand better how hurtful it can be!!!

oh yes!

my son does that when he gets really mad at me..so he finally was at the age that we just told him why and since then he hasnt said nothing like that again..but my daughter will tell me all the time that im not her mom..good luck

I personally had a similar problem when I was younger I thought my brothers dad was my dad as well for the longest and when he passed away my mom told me I had a different dad and to top it off he had went through a sex change... its definitely more harder for me to accept and now I have to figure out how I can include my dad in my daughter's life without confusing/hurting her... I'm sure that your son will realize that your fiancee loves him blood or not :) props to your fiancee for taking him aside and telling him how he feels!!! My dad thinks everythings okay with what he did...