how do u no if your dilating

Doctor checks to see if your cervix is opening any

Cuz I keep having pain down there like pressure but I'm only 18 weeks

it may be stretching, I had alot of round ligament pain

It's way too early for dilating... Your uterus is getting heavier so that's probably the pressure your feeling.

it just scares me cuz I don't want to start dilating its to early

well I have a ultrasound on Friday

I hope not cuz every little thing scares me cuz I don't won't nothing happening to my baby

it could be round ligament pains & the way the babe is laying. but speak with your doctor about it.

You are definitely not dilating way too early body is jus making room for baby . It may be round ligament pain

I hope that's all it is cuz it got me scared

Don't worry baby is fine. Growing another human being isn't comfortable. Remember that. You're going to have lots of aches and pains. You're going to have pain in your tummy and your hips. It can be a dull aching pain or a sharp pain. Lots of round ligament pain, your body is growing and shifting. Baby is growing and especially your uterus is growing rapidly. Growing a baby ain't easy! You're doing great. @jennifer64

thanks