So me and my partner have split up, he was supposed to be at the birth but now we're not together don't think I want him…
So me and my partner have split up, he was supposed to be at the birth but now we're not together don't think I want him being there swing my in labour, anybody else felt like this or just me?
sp28346·
@stephaniex, this is horrible news I'm so sorry to hear it :( I would say you have ever right to refuse him being there if it's what makes you more comfortable! hope you're okay, message me if you need to talk xx
Stephanie Kerray·
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@jem29, aw thank you. Yea I would be much more comfortable if he wasn't there!xx
sp28346·
@stephaniex, definitely. and if you're not comfortable then that's no good for you or the baby. I've said I don't want any family at mine because I just know I'll get stressed and annoyed at someone, so I think a break up is more than enough reason to say you don't want him there!! xxx
Kerry·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (16 нед.)
Sorry to hear that Hun. I would definitely say have someone supportive at the birth, your going to need that. So longs as you give him a fair chance at being a dad after then your doing nothing wrong Hun. Hope your okay x
Stephanie Kerray·
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Yea my mum will be there, to be honest she's been my support the whole way through this pregnancy rather than him! I would never deprive him the chance to be a dad just wouldn't feel comfortable with him there! Thank you @homely.mummy.no2 xx
Stephanie Kerray·
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Yea that's what I was thinking but I know he won't be happy! I'm fine thank you @jem29 xx
sp28346·
@stephaniex, he'll just have to lump it then :) he can't have it all! xxx