So me and my partner have split up, he was supposed to be at the birth but now we're not together don't think I want him…
So me and my partner have split up, he was supposed to be at the birth but now we're not together don't think I want him being there swing my in labour, anybody else felt like this or just me?
sp28346·
@stephaniex, he'll just have to lump it then :) he can't have it all! xxx
Stephanie Kerray·
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Yea that's what I was thinking but I know he won't be happy! I'm fine thank you @jem29 xx
Stephanie Kerray·
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Yea my mum will be there, to be honest she's been my support the whole way through this pregnancy rather than him! I would never deprive him the chance to be a dad just wouldn't feel comfortable with him there! Thank you @homely.mummy.no2 xx
Kerry·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (16 нед.)
Sorry to hear that Hun. I would definitely say have someone supportive at the birth, your going to need that. So longs as you give him a fair chance at being a dad after then your doing nothing wrong Hun. Hope your okay x
sp28346·
@stephaniex, definitely. and if you're not comfortable then that's no good for you or the baby. I've said I don't want any family at mine because I just know I'll get stressed and annoyed at someone, so I think a break up is more than enough reason to say you don't want him there!! xxx
Stephanie Kerray·
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@jem29, aw thank you. Yea I would be much more comfortable if he wasn't there!xx
sp28346·
@stephaniex, this is horrible news I'm so sorry to hear it :( I would say you have ever right to refuse him being there if it's what makes you more comfortable! hope you're okay, message me if you need to talk xx