So me and my partner have split up, he was supposed to be at the birth but now we're not together…

@stephaniex, this is horrible news I'm so sorry to hear it :( I would say you have ever right to refuse him being there if it's what makes you more comfortable! hope you're okay, message me if you need to talk xx

@jem29, aw thank you. Yea I would be much more comfortable if he wasn't there!xx

@stephaniex, definitely. and if you're not comfortable then that's no good for you or the baby. I've said I don't want any family at mine because I just know I'll get stressed and annoyed at someone, so I think a break up is more than enough reason to say you don't want him there!! xxx

Sorry to hear that Hun. I would definitely say have someone supportive at the birth, your going to need that. So longs as you give him a fair chance at being a dad after then your doing nothing wrong Hun. Hope your okay x

Yea my mum will be there, to be honest she's been my support the whole way through this pregnancy rather than him! I would never deprive him the chance to be a dad just wouldn't feel comfortable with him there! Thank you @homely.mummy.no2 xx

Yea that's what I was thinking but I know he won't be happy! I'm fine thank you @jem29 xx

@stephaniex, he'll just have to lump it then :) he can't have it all! xxx