anyone else feel neglected by their SO ? he wasnt like this a few days ago, i just want to spend time with him and…

Just ask him to take at least one night a week and spend it with you. Whether it's movies at home or a simple dinner or a movie theatre.. Anything small

exactly @missalexisnicole it's been really rough lately:( i feel non existent

My boyfriend has been distant this week, but I think it's cuz he's been working 12 hour days... Still sucks though. I just want to love on him and he doesn't want anything to do with me ):

we have hope ♡ @aminasmommy2016 @valerie96

so true ;(

that's so unfortunate you know. how come we can make the best decisions we can and do everything for them and they do whatever tf they want? constantly? @lucyyxoxo_ @valerie96

yes thats my plan.

it doesn't set in for them until the arrival of your baby. if by then there is no change, you girls can make a final decision @aminasmommy2016 @valerie96

just a few weeks ago we were talking marriage. his single friends from out of state came and took him out. things haven't been the same since. he's younger than me so I get hes overwhelmed about having 2 kids at the age of 24 and feels like he's going to lose himself in this whole process. but a night out with friends shouldn't take that much affect on the rest of your life. now he's saying he needs space. this is the time I need him by my side the most.

yes thats the thing with good jobs. yu need to be clean my boyfriend didnt smoke and stayed clean to get a good job. hes a plumber now and wow tell him that he needs to quit to get a good job for yu and the baby. do what i did, i even told my boyfriend that he does not want me to. make him pay child support

mine has an opportunity to get a better paying job but has to be clean and he was on board this am then texted me saying not coming home right away, going to smoke :((((( @valerie96

i honestly told my boyfriend that if he didnt quit that i would move back to cali once the babys 2 months if he still doesnt change and he cried and has begged me not to leave him so i just hope he will actually quit cigs i dont really mind weed .. but i do care that hes spending miney on that. the money should only be spent on the baby!

yeah it's so frustrating, i sit here and wait for him all day and he just does his own thing like I'm not even here. what can we do to help this neglected feeling go away??? :( @lucyyxoxo_ @valerie96

Me !! &; He Too Wasn't Like This a Few Days Ago

i just seen yur from hemet, i was born in hemet and lived there ever since the end of December. i now live in everett washington moved to be with my boyfriend bc his parents moved here and he came to get a good job bc hemet takes forever to get a job

im sorry girls:( hopefully once babys born things will change. my boyfriend was smoking weed everyday smoking cigs atleast once a day but i told him he better stop cigs before our daughter is born and he said he will but he officially stopped it all because i kept telling him everyday to quit before the babys born. so hes really trying to quit.

I'm in the same boat 😢