Yea I get it. I felt the same way. Don't get me wrong I don't think it's the right thing for them to do. They should want us at every stage of our bodies and life. It is a little weird though if you think about it, if you try to see it through their eyes. For us we feel a special connection with the baby being inside of us. For them, there is a baby right there.. Close to our vaginas and they are poking at it. Again I'm not saying it's the right thing to just leave us hanging and not love on us. I just don't want you to feel ugly or unloved because you're not!

@littlefirefly, I did that to mine mostly because I was hurt . but some men are scared because they think they are going to hurt the baby even if you show them that there is no way

@momma1, it really does suck because this is when I need him the most. I feel like giving him a taste of his own medicine once in back to normal and just refuse to have sex with him for some stupid reason.

@aboutellesbabe, I think that's what bothers me, that he's just waiting for me to get "hot" again. I kind of see it as the equivalent of me not wanting to have sex with him because he got fat. I do think he doesn't find me attractive anymore, he just doesn't want to hurt my feelings by telling me so.

My SO didn't have sex with me at all. He kept saying that I didn't look unattractive it was just weird. Now he wants to have sex like ALL the time and I'm so exhausted I'm the one turning him down! So don't worry it's not that he doesn't love you it think you're unattractive. That big bump really is just weirding him out haha. Soon enough you'll be in my position... Sore 😜 no but really he's going to see you back to normal, the mother of his child and think that you are hotter than ever! keep your head up girl!

@littlefirefly, omg I was the same I used to get so mad ! I literally waited months to get intimate again it sucked