ladies... I'm really upset right now... I feel as if I made a mistake getting pregnant, my child will never be a mistake, but I feel like this is the wrong time... I am 20 years old, I am engaged to my man who I've been with for 3 years and known for 7 years, BUT I don't have a job and have been having a hard time getting one and although my fiance has a full time job he doesn't even make enough money for us to qualify for a 1 bedroom in a restricted income apartment community... we've been looking other places but we're just not having any luck. Currently my fiance is living with his dad and I am living with my parents... neither of them will let either of us move in with the other while we get on our feet soooo were going to be living separately when the baby is born :/ that is the LAST THING I want... my dad left me when I was 2 years old so I grew up without my father and I do not want my child to go through the same... although my fiance will be involved my mom won't allow him to be here overnight and she doesn't want him here every day during the day either. so we're just screwed. sorry for such a long post, but I'm really upset and just don't know what to do... all I've ever wanted was to be a mommy, but I hate thinking that my baby will be growing up with only one parent at a time :(