If you don't trust him, leave.
If you don't trust him, leave.
If you have to investigate his phone, his calendar, or his whereabouts, leave.
If you bitch about him more than you speak life over him, leave.
If you need to CONTROL or CHANGE him, leave.
If he's doing these things to you, LEAVE NOW!
Model what you want your kids to seek out because those little eyes don't miss much, if anything. It's too easy. Quit breaking your own heart.