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There are some things that I can't fix but I wish I could . My oldest of 4 children (and only boy) is 17 and told me he…

There are some things that I can't fix but I wish I could . My oldest of 4 children (and only boy) is 17 and told me he is jealous of the new baby (who will be my 2nd boy) because I was kinda wild when he was a little and now that I've straigtened up our new baby is going to have everything and he didn't. I try to give him everything now but I know there is nothing that will ever make up for lost time. I just don't know what to tell him. I want him to love his baby brother like he does his sister's .

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machelle137

Misty

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Same with me. I have a 17 year old boy and two girls. He's old enough to understand what you just said.

alyssabrittany

Alyssa Malloy

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He'll be okay, I was like that too when my mom had me she was 18 and still wild, so when my little brother and sister were born they were a lot more financially stable and responsible I was jealous at first but now i love to see my siblings be happy and getting all the things they need and want even if I didn't get myself.

mamatarona

TARA

Yeah I had a talk with him and let him know I love him and I wish I could change the past but I can't

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.