so my "overly chatty" husband who delivers product to all the stores in our area for his job…

I get what you're saying, but at the end of the day, your husband has to set boundaries. A woman can't break any if there are none to be broken. He's the one in a relationship with you and has a commitment to you. These other women don't. That's where he needs to step in and let it be known that he's married and isn't interested. You have the right to be mad at him if he isn't doing those things. Some females just do not care or have any self respect and will openly talk to, or flirt with a married man. Your husband doesn't need to entertain their bull, even for his job.

he can leave work at work, I was a bartender so I know all about being nice for your job but I never added customers to my social media.... he needs to respect you if you are having his 3rd child, he clearly doesn't if he is talking this way with other females... a man should know better

@breloya, yeah my husband is a talkative person but I know he wouldn't cheat on me he doesnt have any game to be honest... this chick clearly liked pics of my kids and myself and then made some comments like that about me and my husband seriously thought I would take it as some kind of compliment... him being friendly bcuz he feels he had to is what opened the door up for this chick to feel that comfortable and some dumb females out here will take niceness as flirting or something so I'm literally pissed at the whole situation...my husband can be strictly business but he doesn't see the error in his ways bcuz he literally is too dumb to realize how that type of female thinks or doesn't think for that matter

I agree with @breloya he needs to set boundaries and it's their choice not to listen to them but it's his to keep it professional there's no reason he should be "friendly" with them.

@sarahdrew, he is basically trying to play it off as tho this chick it trashy and obnoxious and says stuff for attention and that's probably true but I'm not there so I don't know...that's why I told him if he can't handle convos like a grown man then stop having them...he thinks I want him to be a dick all day and be rude to his customers..he just doesn't get it

men don't get a lot of stuff

Amen 🙌🙌🙌🙌 I totally agree about the female thing the shits ridiculous like they don't even realize he's married with kids or in my situation engaged with our second on the way.

@nathansmommy2, I'm glad I'm not alone!! my husband is literally guilty for being too nice but this chick clearly knows what the deal is. some girls just don't care and I swear I'm so sick of it. I'm pissed at my husband for being too nice like "okay have a great day". no eff that say here's your stuff I'll be back on this date and walk out the door! I've worked before I was a stay at home mom and I know you don't get fired for keeping it strictly business talk. I'm tired of him not realizing how these girls are out here. he just thinks I'm overreacting but really he's just being stupid and naive thinking girls aren't out to sabotage another females hard work and relationship just to see if they can do it...it's like a game to them!!

@sarahdrew, yeah I have my third boy on the way and I have to correct behavior all day long and I just don't have it in me to correct his behavior as well...I blame it on his mother honsetly...she should have taught him some of the basics and she didnt

I totally agree with that

Yea he should set boundaries I mean it's not difficult I understand keeping it professional but at the same time he needs to realize that females these days are all out to ruining things just for the fun of it @akelly16

@nathansmommy2, amen! I really don't understand the laziness of these girls... they think they can just take a woman's place without doing any work or something..

I totally agree. im going through some stuff with my husband (soon to be ex now)..hes been talking to a girl for 3 months now and she knows he is still married..no repsect from either side .its sad.

@mommaof2babes, I'm sorry your going through that.. it's so totally unnecessary and ridiculous

it really is and thank you. im sorry for what youre going through too!

@mommaof2babes, no problem... I'm not at the divorce part I'm just at that annoying, can't stand my husband, hope he uses his brain more part lol. I hope all turns out well for you tho and if you need someone to talk to I'm always by my phone :)