Question for all you ladies out there..
Would you be mad or upset if your SO goes away for the weekend about 50 min - an hour away 4 days before you're due?!?! You have the choice of going, but feel since it's so close you want to stay local to the hospital but He's contemplating about going anyway! Thoughts ?!??
Yeah his family is almost an hour away. And mine will be 3 hours away! They better wait!! I'll tell my boyfriend to catch a red eye back home the same day he arrives lol 😋
Aww! Yeah that's scary! I understand completely! I gave no fam where we live, just his. My mom is more than an hour away. Sucks! I hope they do wait! Lol we can't be in there alone! Lol @missjess
Right! It's not. My bf don't have a choice. But it's our first baby together and I'll be living in a whole new city I'm not familiar with at all, and know no one! So it worries me some that he could be gone when I go into labor. I guess we just have to hope these little ones will hold off while the daddy's are gone!
In that situation I wouldn't be too upset. However this isn't a necessity for him. 😡 @missjess lol
My boyfriend will be traveling around my due date. I'm not thrilled! But he has to fly with his daughters to get them home.
@cmariee_, Ah that changes things then! Regardless, congrats hun! You're almost done!
@kaylynx3, yeah I know but we already have a 6 year old! Lol it's not like this is new to him ya know? But I hear where you're coming from
girl I feel u on that I'd be fuuming well I hope he finds someone to take his place because this can't be a missed opportunity its something he should be there for best of luck
That's exactly what I said. @heatha3005 . Unfortunately it's not a "reschedule" type of trip. His parents organize fashion shows and it happens to be like I said 4 days before I'm due. He runs the front desk & everything so they "need" him. I said get someone else to do it, it ain't that serious. But I be feeling like f he really does go, he's definitely gonna regret it for ever. Plus, that's when I'm turning straight bitch. Won't even let his ass in my hospital room. ✋🏼
I'd be livid, but in their persective it's one last getaway before the baby comes. At least they're nearby if something happens before your due date! Let them know your concern, but don't let the issue stress you too much, you don't need any additional stress!
I'd be upset nothing should be more important thank making sure you're close enough to see the birth of your child that's a once in a life time moment I'd say reschedule the trip just in case
@missjess,