hey ladies the apartment I plan on moving into is the same apartments my mother stays at. they're…

hey ladies the apartment I plan on moving into is the same apartments my mother stays at. they're not owned by a big company its a small complex with 8 apartments 4 of them or 2bedrooms which we're planing on getting well me and my mom hardly talk because her husband despise me and my fiance and that fact that we aren't married with 2 kids. so I would be getting an apartment upstairs from them opposite sides though only thing is me and my mom are back at not talking and it hurts me a lot because I didn't have my mother around when I was pregnant with my daughter and now with this baby. and that fact we would be living practically next door to each other it would kill me even more and put me in a depression stage again. and I seriously don't want that its the cheapest we could find and its already ready for move in and I know my fiance would still want to move there despite what my moms husband says about us but I know he'll start drama and won't let me see my siblings at all and like I said it would hurt because I live there as well as if I'm all the way across town ;( idk what to do.