I seriously cannot stand my fiance's mother ! she is constantly starting drama and she thinks it's okay to walk into my home whenever she feels no call no text nothing so I make sure my door is locked 24/7 now and apparently today she tried it and instead of knocking or calling she texted my fiance who was at work to bitch about me not opening the door, I'm so over her bs !!! he never will say anything to her because he doesn't want the argument but enough is enough.
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set boundaries now,kz when you marry him,since he ain't saying nothing,girl she gna walk all over you.Let her know it's not acceptable!your house,your rules!
I'm gonna have to he knows his mom is an over bearing B ! but he just brushes it off and expects me to do the same and I just can't ! we gotta Def figure something out :(
my mom is like that, except for the actual walking in without knocking, and I've told her over and over again that because this is not her house nor mine(its my in laws) she needs to ask before coming because we all have things going on and it doesn't revolve around her time. you need to tell your mil if your husband won't, talk nicely and calmly as possible and if she starts to yell or swear at you, simply ask her to leave, so then hopefully your husband will see that its her and not you. record the conversation even to prove to him if you have too.
My MIL is pretty nasty and mean to me. I'm just lucky my husband was the one who put his foot down and cut her off. Nothing worse then a bad MIL.
I want to so bad but you can say something being as nice as possible about it and she seriously just blows it up is so fn dramatic and will tell the whole family any and everything cries about everything !! she seen our daughters sonogram picture and she didn't even say she was cute or anything just commented on how big her feet were I was so pissed and he just wants me to let it all go "that's just her" well idgaf ! it's too much she needs to learn some respect n boundaries. I may have to just do the same and take the heat that comes with it
my mil is awful to. I had a sit down talk with her about how if her actions don't change that she wouldn't see my son. my hubby was not thrilled at all but she was beginning to ruin our marriage. some times you just gotta put your foot down. now I never really see her except on holidays and if she stops by she won't get out of the car. I may have been harsh but she took things way to far.
Ik you are so right too ! it's just the aftermath I don't want to deal with but I'm Def going to have to because it's out of hand and our daughter is due in a month I can't imagine how it's going to be when she's here I'll lose it.