Anybody else start feeling a little bit crappy again around 15 weeks? Thought the sickness had disappeared but it's come back with vengeance today 😔 also feeling achy all over and aches in my stomach which I'm assuming are just growing pains.. where's my pregnancy glow I ordered?? 😖
Yeh I had a moment last night @stacey804 thinking he was going to leave me when I have leaky droopy boobs and a tummy full of stretch marks.. in my head it was totally justified and he was like don't be daft it's just your hormones and then I could have strangled him because to me it wasn't that I had every reason to think that 😔 it's horrible isn't it.. because they don't give you any reason to think that x
We are. Although I do want to strangle him alot of the time 😂😂 @sairainbow
@stacey804, I do feel the same thing sometime when he does all those little things for me 😊 and make me feel soecial coz i m in 32 weeks now and he really dont want me to do anything and does everything for me apart from cooking ... we r lucky aren't we?
It is the small things. Although I've just wrote a status up on here about my oh. It's my hormones and emotions that are getting out of control. He's so sweet and nice yet I'm doubting everything he does, I'm getting jealous and worry over if he loves me. I know it's all in my head @clairey xx
oh thanks @sairainbow I will do :) I know I said this to my oh @stacey804 and he just looked at me and said no haha and my sex drive hasn't gone up that much!
My OH is very caring as well I come home every night after work and I have a bath ready and he does tea and when I go to bed he gets me a hot water bottle and gives me a foot rub 😍 it's the small things x
@stacey804, I totally remember that stage, so many times I was ready to go out to work then just as i was opening the front door I'd throw up! I know hehe I'm so lucky :p you will get there!
He is, under the thumb 😉😂 I know, there's only so much I can do. Everytime I start though or plan to go out nausea kicks in. I've caught up on so much TV this week it's unreal 😂😂 I wish I was as far on as you. I feel like I have forever left! @jem29
@stacey804, bless him he sounds like a cutie. I know tell me about it, my house has never been so immaculate I even cleaned the plumbing behind my toilet this morning and tightened the screws on my pots and pans hahaha!!! it sucks when you get to this stage cos you have time to do stuff but no energy to go out
One thing I'm fully taking advantage of is my oh running around after me. He can't do enough bless him. This is our first baby and he's his mammy baby. He's soft as muck haha. But I love him. I'm on the sick from work now due to discrimination against me being pregnant and the stress they were putting me under. But I feel so lost having nothing to do! Boredom. @jem29
@sairainbow I wish I was so lucky to orgasm in my dreams I can barely do it in reality haha!! Also I've just remembered I did make myself bleed quite badly last time I shaved so I might actually go buy an electric shaver lol. @stacey804 to be fair the only thing that gets harder is dealing with the feeling of a football strapped to your stomach lol you do get some good days though and everyone dotes on you and you get maternity leave :p
@stacey804, he felt the same guess its normal may be they dont want to ruin the part which they like the most lol .. but it will be ruined in a while when baby decide to appear .. hahaha. no complains though 😊 True, its so hard to see down dere even in the mirror, will stay away from raz or any cream for a while and only trim seems best option..XxxX
Yeah I had that aswel @sairainbow dreaming and having orgasms. But it made my stomach cramp up which put me off sex aswel. But it's fine now. You'd think he would be a professional at shaving seen as he constantly trimming his beard hahahha. But I think he is just worried incase he hurts me. I would probably cause more injury to myself then he would 😂😂 xx
Since begining I am having orgasm in my dreams even till I get intense dreams bout it. O man my libido has gone up by 1000 times 😈 @clairey I get the same from my hub that what if he grabs me from inside for poking him and his moma ..lol 😂😂😂 I bet you are xcited for ur scan, make sure u do drinknor something to wake him up b4 ur scan, it really helps. @jem29 nope u r not alone at all Congrats for lil princess and agree it takes too long to reach to cervix 'best not to say otherwise'..lol @homely.mummy.no2 best of luck for ur assignment hope u could focus on ur work though its bit difficult with nausea and not feeling good. @stacey804 we did also wait for 12 weeks and even after no proper just helping each other out with extented support 😂😆 hahaha but not denying I was literally having orgasm in my dreams at that time also even if I wasn't having sex and always woke up with cramp ..😒 @jem29 haha, I remember, I was helping my hub to get relax and den left in middle and start throwing up coz of hieghtened smell.. eeee.. I am still embrassed till but he was so sweet and din utter a word rather said he understand that and slept with me without even finishing off Bless him 😍 @stacey804, Its not a very nice feeling to have all that jungle so my hub helped and did my shave twice so far. He did not did very well but it was okay.. dont wait till due date .. get him now to practice b4 the judgment day .. lol XxxX
My friend told me when she was pregnant and I was like Yeah whatever but now I'm pregnant I'm like christ you were right. I'm only 23 weeks and struggling now. God help me when I'm ready to drop like you haha @jem29
@stacey804, yep lol. at least he had an option haha I said to mine I'm sorry but you're doing it.. I'm not going to have people poking about my bits with a bush lol however I did manage to do it myself last week it was such a victory!!! I tried to tell my friend how chuffed I was and she didn't get it.. I was like just you wait til you're pregnant haha
Hahaha we are so attractive ain't we. Since being pregnant over the weeks shaving has become a nightmare too! I joked to my oh that he'll have to shave me when I'm due and he was modified! 😂😂 @jem29
@stacey804, yep I feel that, I've been sick all the way through and sometimes just moving round would make me hurl.. my poor boyfriend, he'd take his clothes off and then I'd be throwing up hahahah
My oh thinks the same @clairey i don't know where these men get there egos from 😂😂😂 @jem29 we were scared at first so waited until after I was 12 weeks before we had sex, but I felt so sick all the time it was the last thing on my mind, and now I'm begging for it. 😂😉 definitely @homely.mummy.no2 at least all of this is for something special and amazing at the end. Xx
I'm also 15 weeks and still feel rubbish. No matter how drained the sex drive is deffo heightened! I have an assignment on health politics to do and baby brains is the last thing I need. At least we are not alone ladies!! We are doing our bit for humanity x
@sairainbow I reckon boy by the middle finger lol!! @stacey804 oh good that makes me feel better I'm not just some random nymphomaniac haha. @clairey LOL that has made my morning, it's true though it takes ages before you could feel the baby's head and even then you have to really really really really really really reach lol and yeah probably best not to say it otherwise you definitely won't be getting any haha! oh and I'm having a girl 💜
Does it really? My OH just laughs at me at the min but thinks I'm nuts lol oh God @jem29 that's not good.. I do the same @sairainbow forget what I need to say, go in the kitchen or front room for something and totally forget in the 10seconds it's taken me
to get to there 😔 my sex drive has gone up but I think I notice it more because my OH feels 'weird' doing it now keeps saying 'I don't want to poke the baby's head' I'm just like don't flatter yourself 😂 but I haven't said that yet haha.. I'm going for a private scan on Saturday to find out what I'm having early il almost be 16 weeks then so il let you guys know :) I'm so excited 😁 @jem29 @stacey804 @sairainbow
I'm having a little boy 😊😊 and my sex drive has went from zero to hundred yhe past few weeks @sairainbow @jem29 xx
There you see him showing me middle finger and whole time covering his face either with his hand or feet .. @stacey804 @clairey @jem29 XxxX
Tell me about it .. I start with one conversation and den boom totally lost track what I was even talking.. goes to kitchen forgetting what I came for 😁 One min I need to eat what I am craving and in a gest totally forget, How about sex drive? I can watch porn all day long 😈😂 @stacey804 @clairey @jem29 XxxX
@clairey @stacey804 @sairainbow oh yes, I'm a driving instructor.... and the other night I was driving. There was a traffic light controlled pedestrian crossing and a give way line immediately after. I was concentrating on the give way line so didn't stop at the red light! Thank god no one was there, the only thing that was harmed was my sense of pride when my boyfriend would not let it go lol!! so yes baby brain is very much affecting me
Oh yes! The past few weeks it has got out of control. I also was one of those people that thought it was a myth but it really isn't! Hahha my oh and parents think I'm going around the bend. I have to check the oven 10 times, I keep thinking Oh have I turned it off or not. @clairey apparently it stays around for a few months after birth aswel! All the chemicals going on. Joys xx
Oh don't get me started on that @stacey804 haha it's not beautiful thing what happens to your body during it all.. yes having a baby grow inside you is amazing but not all the other stuff lol I didn't sign up for half of this sh*t haha oh and also 'baby brain' I just thought it was a made up thing! oh no! my memory since being pregnant is shocking.. have any of you had baby brain? xx @stacey804 @jem29 @sairainbow
True @clairey when u read all bout pregnancy they say when u carry a boy u get glow bla bla .. huh CRAP!! every lil scar or mark on my face is so visible even blind man could come and count it moreover I have breakout around boobs and back as well.. 😬 I can buy being more sick and having a healthier could be true coz of all the harmones raging and changes in our body could be sign things going as they should be @stacey804 @jem29
I know. I'm so impatient aswel @jem29 can't wait for June! @sairainbow yeah I've definitely felt loads of stretching and discomfort this past week. I feel huge also! No definitely not @clairey thrres no manual to all of this stuff 😂😂 not to mention all the odd bodily fluids we loose hahahha xx
Haha @sairainbow I'm sure none of this gets told to anyone before getting pregnant.. I didn't know that @stacey804 and @jem29 about being more sick and having a healthier baby.. every cloud and all that! xx
I'd sickness till 17 weeks like proper throw ups. your uterus is stretching and making space for buba that could be the reason of pain and uncomfortable feeling. GLOW, my ass, I look like I had been hit by truck with all the breakout XxxX
@stacey804, lol yes we will!! I feel bad for you cos I only have 5 weeks left ;)
Definitely haha. My mam was so sick all the way through her pregnancy with me. So much so I'm an only child. 😂😂 I have been told the same though @jem29 . The worse you are the healthier the baby. Not sure how true it is but we'll go along with it to make us feel better lol xx
@clairey, @stacey804 yep some people just don't get it however my midwife kept saying the sicker the better so at least our babies are healthy haha
I know I was the same when my sickness ended at 16 weeks 😂😂 pregnancy is one big bang of worry I think I didn't realise it would be like this. But my little man kicks me all the time (sometimes painful) but it's amazing to have him growing there. Wouldn't change it for the world @clairey xx
That's true @jem29 hahha my friend had a brilliant pregnancy and she can't understand why I feel rough. Xx
The perks of being pregnant eh? Haha but saying all of that I wouldn't change it because I know my baby is doing good and when I suddenly stop feeling rubbish I panic haha I hope you feel better soon as well @jem29 at least have a few weeks break until your baby makes their appearance 😊 and @stacey804 xx
@clairey, haha yeah exactly. I think in general it is true but for some of us it's rough all the way through. I do hope you feel better soon though x
It's my first too. But I think everyone is different so the apps are a bit useless with the info I think. Xx
Oh really? that's not good.. this is my first pregnancy so when all these different apps and information tell me I'm going to start feeling better in my second trimester I believed it all.. shouldn't be so gullible I guess lol xx
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