Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
C-section=OMG! So let me start off by saying I am completely terrified.
I am so stressed right now!!! My OB doesn’t want to take me anymore because I am too “high risk” so I got a new one they don’t want to see me either. They referred me to a group one hour way from my house. But there is only one high risk dr and he doesn’t know if he could see me. I feel like I should not see any at this point.
Ladies I need advice I am so stressed out and so upset. My mans ex is giving out his number to strange men and telling them to pretend that they know me and they text my man nasty things and say that I know them and that they had sex with me but I don’t know anyone from this area since I just moved here a couple of months ago. I am at loss and so afraid that he’s gonna leave me I keep breaking down..
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Danielle·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (33 нед.)
apply for maternity allowance hun
you have to be employed for 26weeks by the time your 25 weeks pregnant to get smp xxx
Danielle·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (33 нед.)
apply for maternity allowance hun
you have to be employed for 26weeks by the time your 25 weeks pregnant to get smp xxx
Stacey Marie·
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They can't do that, they should advice you to get a form from the job centre. You will get maternity allowance. I wouldn't worry. Xx
Becca Stirling·
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Thank you girls!!!! @ljay @leanne2016 xxx
leanne·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (21 нед.)
Someone sent it to me and it was great
leanne·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (21 нед.)
https://www.gov.uk/pay-leave-for-parents @beccastirlingx fill in this babe it'll tell u if you are entitled to it
Lucy·
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I'm self employed so different situation, however if you have worked enough weeks of your pregnancy you'll be entitled to smp I get 139 a week for 9 months. Pop to the job centre or call department of work and pensions. I found them really helpful x
Becca Stirling·
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Thank you @rach91 xx
Rachel·
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You should be entitled to smp via the government, I remember reading something about it on direct gov...worth looking on there for some guidance xx
Becca Stirling·
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Thank you @jem29 xx
sp28346·
I think you are, it's not like you were 3 or 4 months pregnant when you joined! then it would be unreasonable for you to not know. If you don't get maternity pay you may get maternity allowance instead which is the same amount anyway.
found this on gov.uk
Problems and disputes
Ask your employer to explain your SMP if you think it’s not right. If you disagree about the amount or your employer can’t pay (eg because they’re insolvent), call HM Revenue and Customs (HMRC) employees’ enquiry line.
HMRC employees’ enquiry line
Telephone: 0300 200 3500
Becca Stirling·
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I'm so hurt because they've waited till now to tell me rather than sooner, I go on maternity the 29th! They have been so horrible to me all pregnancy. I've made an appointment with CAB office to see what's going on, because I know I should be entitled to SMP x
ik·
Мама сына (10 лет)
in a similar situation. I fell pregnant 2 weeks after starting work with the nhs. I thought I was not entitled to maternity but I research their policy and I am. go to HR or citizens advice bureau.@beccastirlingx,
11375·
you should get maternity allowance off government. I think it works out as same amount or similar xx
zara·
Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
I don't think you are if you have only worked for them that long. I would contact the benefits office and see what you would be entitled to, and then find a new job when you are ready for one. They sound like twats x
Stephanie Kerray·
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You should be entitled to it then, maybe go to citizens advice and hopefully they can help you?xx @beccastirlingx
Becca Stirling·
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6 months, but the SMP form that I handed in said I was entitled to maternity pay as long as I had been employed with the company since the start of my pregnancy which I believe I was because I didn't know I was pregnant till after I started @stephaniex xx
Stephanie Kerray·
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How long have you worked there?xx @beccastirlingx