My boyfriend is so pissed that he won't even talk to me bc he just came home from work & decides he wants to "help" by…

My boyfriend is so pissed that he won't even talk to me bc he just came home from work & decides he wants to "help" by changing the baby's diaper. I knew he was just going to make her more mad bc she had just woke up from a long sleep & was really hungry, but i let him anyways. However, when he takes his sweet ass time to do EVERYTHING while she's screaming bloody murder I can't help but jump in & do it myself. But he wants to say "don't ever ask me to help you again bc any time i try you don't let me" when 1, I didn't ask him to help bc he makes things worse. 2, any time i actually ask him to help at night when we're sleeping he literally wont help. He only wants to do anything when it's convenient for him. & when it's convenient for him, it fucks up our routine. If he really wanted to help me he'd do the dishes, or pick up around the house a bit. But no. He seems to think it's forbidden for him to help with the house bc i don't work so thats my job. I agree, but at the same time our baby is only two weeks old I'm still trying to recover, get sleep, & get used to being a mom.

Sorry for the long rant. I'm so tired. Mentally & physically exhausted.