Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Really need to vent rn... Im not the type of person that likes putting my personal business out but I really need somebody to talk to.... So here it goes 😒. Yesterday I bought my first car ever for a $1000 it needs minor work ( no biggie), but it drives amazing. And my s/o is going off on me because I bought a car wow he was at work. So he says "I'm rushing". But I'm at home with two mfn kids all day everyday and when I need something done I have to wait til his off day just to get things done.. (Not fair) and with me and the kids having doctor appts all next week n he's gonna be working I'm tryna figure out what's the problem.. I'm starting to think🤔 he just dont want me to have a car.
I'm starting to think they playing with me with my tax money still waiting😥😒
I need help!!! Something is wrong with my dog and I have no money or job to take him to the vet. I think hes dying idk
Mamas I really need some advice or just a listening ear, I really don't know what to do, or if I'm overreacting, but my baby's father and I are together, when we met and I got pregnant he was here working, he went back to work out of town after I found out I was pregnant and only comes back once a month, he supports me financially, which was mostly his choice bc he makes good money, we are doing fine on money.. but I'm almost 31 weeks and as I get closer I'm really worried about raising my daughter on my own, he plans to continue to come back only once a month even when she is born and it really scares me, even though I know we will need the money since I won't be working, I still feel like I'm going to be alone raising our daughter, when we talk about it all he has to say is he doesn't see any other way, but he's never lived here, let alone had a job here, and I know of so many places where he could get a job easily when he's here for one of his monthly visits and he just keeps saying that he can't quit his job and move here without having a stable job, and I keep telling him he can,find a job before he quits this one, but yet he's not even trying to find a job when he's here, he hasnt researched job openings or called anywhere, sometimes I feel like he's just comfortable with what is happening and it really hurts me to think about my daughter not having him here, and raising her alone, for one he's never been around a baby, doesnt have a clue how to raise one, and has never even HELD a baby, so I feel like if he only comes back once a month then he's never going to learn how to help with her, let alone know her, and her recognize him when he is here... every time we talk about it, it just turns into an argument and I'm to the point where I feel like I'm wasting my breathe... I just really don't know what to do, I'm scared, and need help and I feel like he doesn't wanna risk anything by moving here when I really need him. am I overreacting??? btw don't get me wrong, I'm beyond grateful for him, with everything he does, and all the financial support he provides, but I've never been "taken care of" (for lack of better words) and I would rather work too, just to have him here to help me and be with his daughter and sometimes I feel like that's not an option to him... it's really depressing me and scaring me. don't be afraid to tell me if I sound like a spoiled bitch or something, I honestly need yalls HONEST OPINION. 😞
Mrs.Pin to you 😉·
Мама сына (1 год)
what does SE mean? and do you pay all the bills and pay for everything when y'all hang out as well?
Crystal·
Do u pay for everything and it possibly sounds like something is going on and that he still might be talking to others and possibly staying for the money
missing268user·
watch him...sounds awfully suspicious girl just don't get hurt:(
Lety·
sorry se=some.... when we go to dinner we go back and forth on who pays.
Crystal·
Could I ask what it's like being a surrogate I was thinking of doing that for a friend of mine but wasn't sure
cassie·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (39 нед.)
him changing his password all the time and acting like that with his phone? id suspect something as well, sounds fishy
kaylie·
The whole him changing his password every week and always with his phone is a huge sign of something going on.. that's how I always found out about my exs cheating on me..
Jazzmin·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (26 нед.)
He's definitely hiding something
Macy❤·
В ожидании первенца
Dont let anyone kill your dream of havei g a home or anything like that, if hes an ass and you see it and dont like it, do somthing about it. A future is more important
Lety·
thanks ladies I'll keep my guard up....@caisner, being a surrogate it has its moments I keep telling myself every morning it's a good deed for this couple and a job. The money's good but this is my first and I wanna say my last. Carrying twins is so hard on my body I'm 4" 11 I'm not made for this double birth. I give it to the mothers who can do twins
Alex·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)
Sounds like my ex. He's hiding something, I'm 100% sure of it. I wouldn't deal with that anymore. It's not fair to you at all ):