honestly I hate the idea of giving birth everything about it scares the shit outta me!! I just want to skip past it to where I'm holding her then skip forward to where I'm not in pain anymore
It was easier than I thought. Mine was long because of the induction, but if you're not getting induced I wouldn't worry about it. The epidural makes everything go away, and you literally have to push like you're pooping. Also if you wait as much to push the head will start descending on its own making pushing easier.