so we've had my step son every weekend this month. Thursday through Tuesday. this past Thursday night she texted my husband saying she needed a break after two nights. I have had one night break from my children in the last 6 months.....wth is a break!!! I'm so aggravated because starting the first we have to start paying child's support when we have him more than her.
@zombiemombie, I write every date on the calendar. including when he comes here sick which is often and we take him to our pediatrician because hers is always busy or on vacation.
@sarahdrew, we are looking into joint custody. I'm pregnant with our last child so money is a little tight trying to save. but the only proof I have is pictures with dates because our phones automatically delete messages after the inbox gets full. and there is no way to stop it.
if you have him more then you need to right down the dates or even an equal amount of time as her. he won't pay child support anymore. but make sure you have proof.
@sarahdrew, that's a great idea!!