first off weather it's coed or not the baby's father or your husband should be first in the guest list. he is just as important and even though it is "traditional" to have no men you would be surprised how many men get their feelings hurt and send gifts with their SO because they "are not aloud" so more people are opening up to the idea of Coed. med actually have fun playing the baby shower games just as much as we do. I say tell her coed or not at all. your baby your rules. if she doesn't go for it throw your own. I did. my SO was very supportive of helping plan and cook food and I even sent my mom an invite and she showed. actually had a good time watching everyone (including guys) play games. pretty memorable day

yea i already told her my husband will be there either way and if theres a problem with it then i wont be there either

i would just say i dont want no babyshower

Just cause she's planning it doesn't mean you're not involved. its your shower. I'm having a coed shower. you do what you want girl and tell her what you say goes

You make the decisions girl & make sure he is there is not your aunt having the baby or who made the baby its YALL #goodluck😘