Feeling annoyed, everyone acts like my son is the bad child out of 10 soon to be 11 grandchildren.…

Feeling annoyed, everyone acts like my son is the bad child out of 10 soon to be 11 grandchildren. Well in his 3 years of life he's had his dad in and out of his life, in and out of 3 different day cares, has had his dad and his girlfriend watch him for days at time with their child who is the same age, my sister in law watched him for over a year, and then my brother who at the time had two younger boys, and now with my mom who works midnight and makes my child stay in her room all day and sleep on her schedule. Then I get home and he's hyper he's been locked up and sleeping all day. But I have step on eggshells with my brother and my mom so I have to force him once again to not be a kid ( a 3 year old boy) and make him calm down. Yes he's out of hand at times but he's a toddler. I want to move so bad but how can I afford daycare or babysitter for two kids, rent, car note, insurance, phone bill, utilities food and gas??

I make too much to get help and my BD is a piece of shit and doesn't work so there's no child support there. What left is there to do? 😔