FOREWARNING: RANT IN PROGRESS
So due to a number of circumstances with my family, my mother and grandmother had originally planned to do a baby shower for me after baby Kenneth comes. However, my crazy sister in law decided to screw that all up when she decided she was going to throw me a "surprise" baby shower that wouldn't include any of my family. And after me trying to explain to her what our plan was (and her ignoring every word I'm saying), she got mad at me for telling her no. But now she's really pissed at me cuz, because of her, my family is throwing a last minute shower for me. But I'm the bad guy because I don't appreciate her wanting to throw a party, which would've been all about her anyway. And she even knew about our original plan to begin with. I really don't need this bs today...Sorry about language and length of rant!
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ikr. my whole family lives in WI, and we live in the U.P. And it not easy to get them up here with everyone's work schedules and where they live. So for her to think that she could just leave them out was ridiculous. but somehow I was the one overreacting
what's a baby shower without your family? that's rude of her! and its for your baby not her
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My friend asked me to watch her dd while she took someone to do something at about 7ish & said "it won't take long"..
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What would you do? - baby shower
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So I’m not a fan of my fiancé’s family. I want you all opinion on what you would do. His family wants to throw me a baby shower. Yet they haven’t invited any of my family and friends and none of my fiancé’s friends. My fiancé and his niece haven’t spoke since May since I got into an argument with her and supposedly this baby shower is her idea. Would you go to a baby shower that no one you know or friends and family won’t be apart of? Would you just not show up? My fiancé has already voiced his ...
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