FOREWARNING: RANT IN PROGRESS

So due to a number of circumstances with my family, my mother and grandmother had originally planned to do a baby shower for me after baby Kenneth comes. However, my crazy sister in law decided to screw that all up when she decided she was going to throw me a "surprise" baby shower that wouldn't include any of my family. And after me trying to explain to her what our plan was (and her ignoring every word I'm saying), she got mad at me for telling her no. But now she's really pissed at me cuz, because of her, my family is throwing a last minute shower for me. But I'm the bad guy because I don't appreciate her wanting to throw a party, which would've been all about her anyway. And she even knew about our original plan to begin with. I really don't need this bs today...Sorry about language and length of rant!