mommy help please. I know it's long but I need serious help my step son is 4.5 his mom enrolled him…
mommy help please. I know it's long but I need serious help my step son is 4.5 his mom enrolled him in full day preschool in September. THIS IS HIS FIRST TIME being in a social learning environment with kids his age other than when I have him at my house. he's already gone thru a horrible divorce courtesy of his mom and has been told that her new baby is of more importance... so he's already got some issues going on... also he's extremely quiet. and is very introverted.I take him to and from school every Friday and every other Thursday... I knew something was going on when he would keep telling me he hated school, he had a horrible day, he hates his teacher, nobody likes him ect. well here it goes...
my step son has come to me AGAIN about bullying. the first time we all found out was when he got off the bus at his mother's screaming because some kids where being mean to him. she did nothing to comfort him but instead made fun of him while he screamed and cried for her to stop (she video tapes it and showed it to me and his dad). she apparently called his teacher amount that she find out what was going on. second time he had mentioned something in the car about being picked on when I had picked him up from school. so I talked to him about it and told him to just pretend like they aren't there. and to tell his teacher when he is being picked on... now this time. I picked him up asked how his day was he said bad. I asked why and he told me that kids where hitting him in class and that other kids hit him when he rides the bus to his mom's. he doesn't want me to tell his teacher because "it'll get worse" and doesn't want me to tell his mom because "she makes fun of him for it". ... while waiting in line to pick him up I found out that alot more parents are picking up there children from school due to increase of bullying on the bus.
Yazmin·
Мама дочки-младенца
you should talking to his dad about it & tell him to go talk to this teacher what's going on with him
Kimberley Rae·
Мама троих детей
me and his dad have talked about it. E mentioned it to the teacher but her response is. "well I seperates him from the other child by sitting him at a different table" to which we asked well what about at center time, and if she has spoken to both of them about bullying.... " he will not tell me anything so there isnt anything I can do unless he tells me directly " @its_yazz ... this is the stuff that really gets to us
Kimberley Rae·
Мама троих детей
the school he is in won't do a thing about it unless he tells them. well he's so scared of these other kids and doesn't want to get made fun of by his own mother that he refuses to tell them about it. only me and my husband..
Yazmin·
Мама дочки-младенца
I don't have kids in school but I have a sister that is in 3 grade & when she was in 1&2 I think she was being bullying so I talked to her teacher about it. she was nice about it but one time she said there was some kid that was bullying on the bus & I had to talk to the principal about it too. & about his mom she a heartless person I'm sorry but if I see my kid being bullying I will stick up for my kids not make fun of them.
Jeanette·
Мама сына (9 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
That is so sad, kids can be so cruel. My son never was actually bullied but he would get left out of everything. From kindergarten until 2nd grade nobody would play with him or include him on the playground, he would spend the whole time by himself on the swings. And it literally breaks your heart when your child thinks nobody likes them... He luckily switched schools this year and he has a ton of friends. His teacher said he's the most popular kid in class.. I don't want to tell you things will get better because that's not always the case. I just told my son that people are usually mean when they are jealous of you and intimidated. But I would DEFINITELY talk to his teacher and principal about this and if it doesn't change threaten to take it to the local news about how that school is being run. Also see if you can talk to his bus driver. I hate that saying "kids will be kids" because no child should be taught that it's okay to put another kid down or to put hands on someone else. I hope things get better for him.
Bianca·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (26 нед.)
This is so sad to read. My son has never been bullied but at this point I think the principal has to be involved, and demand a meeting with the him/her and the parents of the bullies, especially now that it's getting physical